Wise words...now go to the gym.

"If you don't take care of yourself physically and emotionally, you will FAIL."
Jamie Dimon, CEO, JP Morgan Chase & Co.

Just because he's smack-dab in the middle of a HUGE business debacle doesn't mean he doesn't know what he's talking about when it comes to success.  Dimon's history and reputation speak for themselves.  Heed the words, folks...especially this one: "physically."  Your body IS the reason you're successful, don't fool yourself.  If you couldn't walk, couldn't talk, couldn't type, couldn't go to meetings...you'd never be where you are or have the ability to be where you want.  Keep your physical well-being in check; there are too many other obstacles to worry about without your health being one of them.

Words o' Wisdom

Update: the job hunt continues.  This quote doesn't necessarily apply, but it's a good one :)

“If you want to build a ship, don’t herd people together to collect wood and don’t assign them tasks and work, but rather teach them to long for the endless immensity of the sea.”
— Antoine de Saint-Exupery

Well-Seasoned Advice

Having recently left the recruiting company for which I've worked these past 10 months--a job that was a risky endeavor to begin with and was supposed to result in great financial and personal success--I'm suddenly faced with a lot of crossroadsy choices and emotions.  Naturally, everyone to whom I talk is at-the-ready to offer free advice...however, one friend of mine sent me the following article that highlights the importance of paying attention to those who might actually know what they're talking about... :) (originally published in the Huffington Post)

Top 10 Lessons for Living from the Wisest Americans

Karl A. Pillemer, Ph.D. | Dec 07, 2011 09:29 AM EST

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In contemporary society, we don't often ask our elders for advice. We're much more likely to talk to professionals, read books by pop psychologists or motivational speakers, or surf the internet for solutions to our problems. In general (and for the first time in human history), we no longer look to our society's oldest members as a key source of wisdom for how to live happier, healthier, and more fulfilling lives.

 

As a gerontologist, I have come to believe that this attitude is a serious mistake. Older individuals (especially persons age 70 and beyond), are in fact the most credible experts we have available for knowledge about how to live well through hard times. They have been through unique historical experiences -- such as the Great Depression and World War II -- that have taught them how to thrive in the face of adversity. And they have personally experienced many of the tragedies younger people dread, giving them the ability to advise the rest of us about resilience in the face of illness and loss.

 

Over the past six years, I've conducted a research project designed to tap the practical wisdom of older Americans. Using several different social science methods, I've collected responses from over 1,200 elders to the question: "Over the course of your life, what are the most important lessons you would like to pass on to younger people." I then combed through the responses, and the result was a set of lessons for living from the people I have called "the wisest Americans."

 

As I look back over years of talking with America's elders, 10 lessons stand out as those they would like most to convey to younger people. Read these "Top 10 Lessons for Living" and let me know how they apply to your own life. 

 

Choose a career for the intrinsic rewards, not the financial ones. Although many grew up in poverty, the elders believe that the biggest career mistake people make is selecting a profession based only on potential earnings. A sense of purpose and passion for one's work beats a bigger paycheck any day.

Act now like you will need your body for a hundred years: Stop using "I don't care how long I live" as an excuse for bad health habits. Behaviors like smoking, poor eating habits and inactivity are less likely to kill you than to sentence you to years or decades of chronic disease. The elders have seen the devastation that a bad lifestyle causes in the last decades of life -- act now to prevent it.

Say "Yes" to opportunities: When offered a new opportunity or challenge, you are much less likely to regret saying yes and more likely to regret turning it down. They suggest you take a risk and a leap of faith when opportunity knocks.

Choose a mate with extreme care: The key is not to rush the decision, taking all the time needed to get to know the prospective partner and to determine your compatibility with them. Said one respondent: "Don't rush in without knowing each other deeply. That's very dangerous, but people do it all the time."

Travel more: Travel while you can, sacrificing other things if necessary to do so. Most people look back on their travel adventures (big and small) as highlights of their lives and regret not having traveled more. As one elder told me, "If you have to make a decision whether you want to remodel your kitchen or take a trip -- well, I say, choose the trip!"

Say it now: People wind up saying the sad words "it might have been" by failing to express themselves before it's too late. The only time you can share your deepest feelings is while people are still alive. According to an elder we spoke with: "If you have a grudge against someone, why not make it right, now? Make it right because there may not be another opportunity, who knows? So do what you can do now."

Time is of the essence: Live as though life is short -- because it is. The point is not to be depressed by this knowledge but to act on it, making sure to do important things now. The older the respondent, the more likely they were to say that life goes by astonishingly quickly. Said one elder: "I wish I'd learned that in my thirties instead of in my sixties!"

Happiness is a choice, not a condition: Happiness isn't a condition that occurs when circumstances are perfect or nearly so. Sooner or later you need to make a deliberate choice to be happy in spite of challenges and difficulties. One elder echoed almost all the others when she said: "My single best piece of advice is to take responsibility for your own happiness throughout your life."

Time spent worrying is time wasted: Stop worrying. Or at least cut down. It's a colossal waste of your precious lifetime. Indeed, one of the major regrets expressed by the elders was time wasted worrying about things that never happened.

Think small: When it comes to making the most of your life, think small. Attune yourself to simple daily pleasures and learn to savor them now.

 

As the holidays approach, that last lesson is a great one to think about. Because of their awareness that life is short, the elders have become attuned to the minute pleasures that younger people often are only aware of if they have been deprived of them: a morning cup of good coffee, a warm bed on a winter night, a brightly colored bird feeding on the lawn, an unexpected letter from a friend, even a favorite song on the radio (all pleasures mentioned in my interviews). Paying special attention to these "microlevel" events forms a fabric of happiness that lifts them up on a daily basis. They believe the same can be true for younger people as well -- and it's well worth a try at any age!

Why I Love Recruiting...iPad 2 contest entry on RecruitingBlogs.com

I love talking to people. That's why I got into recruiting. Well, that and the prospect of bags of cash. Have done lots of talking to people...still waiting for the bags of cash :)

But I love recruiting because you get such an interesting perspective on the psychology of a wide variety of people. I am a Psych major and have always been curious as to why people think they way they do. This job gives me access to the biggest psychological case-study of which I've ever been a part and presents a puzzle of figuring out why people want what they want and what drives them to different ends. As frustrating as it can be, I don't know if I'll ever stop being amazed when a candidate doesn't ever respond back about a given position after speaking with you for 45 minutes about their experience, why they are a great fit for the position, asking questions about the project scope, etc... Or when a candidate thinks they should get a $20k raise from their previous position when the new job reflects the same level of responsibility/workload. Or why some candidates don't think it's necessary to discuss their own qualifications with a recruiter "because their resume will speak for itself when presented to the hiring manager." Fascinating! (-ly annoying?)

I love recruiting because it can be a ticket into the minds of some very interesting individuals. That said, I won't turn down those bags of cash if they find their way to my door...

http://www.recruitingblogs.com/forum/topics/why-i-love-recruiting-3